The value of existence varies.
When existence is threatened, our perception of its value changes.
An animal that's endangered or close to extinction attracts far more attention than one that is not. Similarly, a person who is dying receives a lot more time from dear ones compared to when hale and hearty.
Same goes with Vera. Before she was born, we had intended to put her with a nanny while both of us continued to work. Now, given her expected shortened life span, time with her seems to take on far greater value. Also, by being the rare 10% to survive beyond infancy, she is giving us time. How can we not do the same? I often remind myself that while others have a lifetime in the 'country' of their children, Vera is but visiting us on a holiday. She deserves to have the time of her life.
4 comments:
Very well said! From the pictures you post, it looks like Vera is having the time of her life! She's such a beautiful baby!
Brings tears to my eye to think it only for a holiday, but you said it so true. I continue to look forward to your writings and life lesson post. Thank you.
Time is the most precious gift, I am moved by your post, thanks for sharing.
Life is precious. I am grateful that Vera has such wonderful parents who understand how precious their beautiful girl is. You are making sure that whatever time you have together is the best it can be. There is no greater gift.
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